计算时间时，请记住婚姻从第一声"我愿意"开始！

1. 月亮不应受到刑克（square），且不应空亡。盈月（新月到满月期间）优于亏月（满月到新月期间）。

2. 当您希望建立长久关系时，固定星座上升最佳。其次是基本星座，特别是天秤座（注重关系）、摩羯座（追求事业成功）和巨蟹座（滋养型）。白羊座和变动星座可能预示关系短暂。

3. 当上升星座（1宫）和下降星座（7宫）的守护星形成良好相位时，关系通常进展顺利，因为它们代表双方。

4. 尽量让太阳和月亮（象征新郎新娘）形成良好相位。

5. 由于土星可能带来限制或延迟，不应将其置于角宫。最好位于弱势宫（3、6、9、12宫），若不可行，可置于续宫（2、5、8、11宫）。如有可能，避免土星受到任何强硬相位影响，包括合相。当相位精确形成时，可能会出现误解、被忽视感或某种悲伤情绪。

6. 若希望关系愉快发展，应避免天王星落入角宫，特别是1宫和7宫。

7. 发光体（太阳和月亮）以及金星和木星（吉星）最好位于地平线以上。得势行星更显眼，似乎能为择时事项带来便利。

8. 尽量让金星（女性）和火星（男性）形成和谐相位，同时金星（爱情与伴侣关系）与上升/下降点（伴侣双方）形成良好相位；木星（幸运与成长）与上升/下降点，月亮（情感）与金星（和谐）形成良好相位。换句话说，强旺且相位良好的金星非常有利。

9. 避免月亮落入天蝎座（陷落位），在此位置月亮可能变得隐秘和占有欲强，不利于幸福关系。另一方面，天秤座的月亮在婚姻择时盘中表现良好，因为它追求和谐与平衡。强大且匹配的伴侣组合在月亮位于狮子座时往往表现良好。

10. 当太阳或月亮与天王星形成刑相位或冲相位时，在相位精确形成时可能预示分离或离婚。

11. 不建议在任何婚姻择时盘中使用金星逆行。由于金星每两年仅逆行约40天，很容易避开这个时期。

英文原文如下：

MARRIAGE RULES:

When calculating the time, remember the marriage starts with the first "I do!"

1. There should be no squares from the Moon and it should not be void of course. A waxing Moon (between the New and Full Moon) is better than a waningone (between the Full and New Moon).

2. Fixed signs rising are best when you want a long lasting relationship. Next are the Cardinal signs, especially Libra (relationship oriented),Capricorn (the need for any venture to be successful) and Cancer (nurturing). Aries and Mutable signs can indicate very short lived situations.

3. A relationship usually works well when the ruler of the Ascendant (1st) and Descendant (7th) are in good aspect to each other, since they represent the two parties in question.

4. Try to have the Sun and Moon (portraying the groom and bride) in good aspect to each other.

5. Because Saturn can bring on limits or delays, it should not be placed in an angular house. It fares best in cadent (3rd, 6th, 9th, 12th) houses or, if that is not possible, put it in one of the succedent (2nd, 5th, 8th, 11th)houses. If possible, avoid all harsh applying aspects to Saturn, including the conjunctions. When the aspect becomes exact, there could be misunderstandings, feelings of neglect or sadness of some kind.

6. If you want the relationship to proceed in a pleasant fashion, keep Uranus out of the angular houses, especially the 1st and 7th.

7. The luminaries (Sun and Moon), as well as Venus and Jupiter (the benefics), should be above the horizon, if possible. Elevated planets are morevisible and seem to bring a certain ease to the elected venture.

8. Try to have Venus (woman) and Mars (man) in harmonious aspect to each other, also Venus (love and partnership) to the Ascendant/Descendant (thecouple); Jupiter (luck and growth) to the Ascendant/Descendant, the Moon (feelings) to Venus (harmony). In other words, a strong, well aspected Venus is very beneficial.

9. Avoid the Moon in Scorpio where it is in its fall and where it canbe secretive and possessive, not exactly conducive to a happy relationship. A Libra Moon, on the other hand, works quite well in a marriage Electional chart since it seeks harmony and balance. Strong and well matched couples seem to do well with the Moon in Leo.

10. The Sun or Moon approaching a square or opposition to Uranus may indicatea separation or divorce when the aspect becomes exact.

11. A retrograde Venus is not advised for any marriage chart. Since Venus only retrogrades for about 40 days every two years, it is fairly easy to avoid.